
Whether you’re brand new to boudoir or just looking for the details, this FAQ covers everything you need to know before your session—from what to expect to what to wear. If you don’t see your question answered here, feel free to get in touch—I’m always happy to help.
Getting Started
What is boudoir photography and who is it for?
Boudoir photography is a style of intimate, empowering portraiture that celebrates your unique beauty and confidence. It’s designed to make you feel comfortable, sexy, and confident—whether you’re celebrating a milestone, preparing a special gift, or simply want to capture yourself in a flattering, artistic way.
Boudoir sessions are for anyone who wants to embrace their sensual side—regardless of age, body type, or experience with photography. Here are some common reasons people book a boudoir shoot:
- Brides or brides-to-be wanting a special gift for their partner
- Individuals celebrating a milestone like a birthday or personal achievement
- People looking to boost self-confidence and body positivity
- Those commemorating a life change such as weight loss or recovery
- Couples interested in intimate portraits together
- Groups of friends celebrating friendship with fun, empowering shoots
- Anyone who wants to celebrate their unique beauty in a fun, artistic way
If you want a fun, uplifting experience that boosts your self-esteem and creates timeless images, boudoir photography is for you.
What if I’m not confident in my body?
Feeling nervous or unsure about your body is completely normal, and you’re definitely not alone. Boudoir photography is all about celebrating you—just as you are. My goal is to create a safe, encouraging environment where you feel comfortable and empowered.
During your session, I’ll guide you with poses and lighting designed to highlight your best features and make you feel beautiful. Many clients find that boudoir photography helps them see themselves in a new, positive light and boosts their confidence long after the shoot.
No matter your shape, size, or experience, boudoir is for anyone ready to embrace their unique beauty and have fun doing it.
Do I have to wear lingerie or be nude?
Nope—what you wear (or don’t wear) is completely your choice. Some clients feel their best in lacy lingerie or a daring bodysuit, while others prefer an oversized sweater, a silky robe, or even jeans and a favorite tee. You can be as covered up or as revealing as you like—what matters most is that you feel comfortable and confident.
That said, many clients use this experience as a chance to step outside their comfort zone and explore a more playful, sensual side of themselves. You don’t have to go all-in to create stunning, intimate images—but if you’re curious to try something bold, this is a safe, supportive space to do it.
Whatever you choose to wear, you’ll walk away with beautiful photos that feel authentic to you.
I’ve never done this before—will you guide me?
Absolutely! Most of my clients are doing a boudoir shoot for the first time, and it’s completely normal to feel a little nervous at the start. You don’t need any modeling experience—I’ll guide you through every step of the process, from poses and expressions to what to do with your hands.
My job is to help you feel at ease, highlight your best features, and bring out your natural confidence. I’ll coach you throughout the session so you’re never left wondering what to do next. All you have to do is show up and trust that I’ve got you covered.
By the end, you might be surprised at how fun and empowering it all feels.
How private is my boudoir session?
Your privacy is a top priority. All boudoir sessions are held in a private, comfortable setting—just you and me (and anyone you bring for safety or support). Nothing is shared without your explicit permission.
After the shoot, your images are stored securely and never posted online or shown to others unless you’ve signed a release allowing it. Many clients choose to keep their photos completely private, while others love sharing a few favorites—we fully support whatever feels right for you.
This is your experience, and your comfort and confidentiality will always come first.
Do you shoot boudoir photography for couples?
Definitely! Couples boudoir sessions are a powerful way to celebrate your chemistry, connection, and shared confidence. Whether you’re playful, passionate, or somewhere in between, we’ll create images that reflect your relationship in a stylish, intimate way.
All couples are welcome—this is a proudly LGBTQIA+ inclusive space. Every session is designed around your vibe and comfort level, and I’ll guide you both throughout to help you look and feel amazing together.
The Session
How much does a session cost and what’s included?
Your boudoir session includes a fully guided two-hour shoot, up to three outfit changes, and your choice of location—whether that’s a studio, your home, or somewhere special. Solo, couple, and group sessions are all welcome at the same base rate.
You only purchase the edited photos you love, and optional add-ons like video are available to enhance your experience. Hair and makeup are not included, but I’m happy to provide referrals.
This is one of the most affordable professional boudoir offerings in the area—designed to make an empowering, high-quality experience accessible. For full details and current pricing, visit the Boudoir session page.
How far in advance should I book?
Booking your boudoir session at least 2–4 weeks in advance is recommended to ensure availability and allow plenty of time to plan your outfits, location, and any add-ons like hair and makeup.
If you have a specific date or event in mind—like a birthday, anniversary, or wedding gift—it’s a good idea to book even earlier to secure your spot.
I work with clients to accommodate last-minute requests when possible, but planning ahead helps make your session as relaxed and enjoyable as possible.
Ready to schedule? Reach out today to reserve your preferred date for a personalized, unforgettable boudoir photography experience.
Where do boudoir sessions take place?
Boudoir sessions typically happen in carefully selected locations that provide a flattering, comfortable atmosphere—most often a professional photo studio or a stylish hotel room. I prioritize booking spaces that offer great natural light, privacy, and beautiful backdrops to create the best possible images.
If you prefer, I can also come to your home for a more personal and intimate setting, provided it fits the style and mood you want for your photos. Home sessions can sometimes lower your cost, though a small travel stipend may apply depending on the location.
No matter where we shoot, the goal is to ensure you feel relaxed and empowered, surrounded by an environment that makes your photos truly shine.
What should I bring and wear?
The specifics of what you wear and any props you bring are best decided together in advance, based on the personalized design and mood of your boudoir session. During your consultation, we’ll discuss your vision, comfort level, and style preferences to choose outfits that highlight your unique beauty.
That said, some popular wardrobe choices include:
- Lingerie sets, bodysuits, or corsets
- Robes, silk kimonos, or oversized shirts
- Favorite jeans, sweaters, or casual pieces
- Accessories like jewelry, heels, or scarves
- Just your birthday suit!
Bringing a few options allows for a variety of looks and moods during the shoot. Most importantly, choose pieces that make you feel confident and comfortable—those feelings translate beautifully on camera.
Can I bring a friend or partner for support?
Absolutely! You’re welcome to bring a friend, partner, or loved one for emotional support and safety during your boudoir session. Having someone you trust nearby can help you feel more relaxed and confident.
That said, many clients find it best if their guest waits just outside the shooting space during the actual photos—having someone in the room who isn’t actively involved can sometimes feel distracting or make you more self-conscious. This is just a friendly recommendation, not a strict rule.
It’s also important that your guest respects the flow of the session and doesn’t direct or interfere with the shoot. My goal is to create a comfortable, professional space where you’re fully in control of your experience.
The Results
How many photos will I receive, and can I choose which ones?
After your session, you’ll receive access to a private online gallery of unedited proofs. From there, you can select as many images as you like to be professionally retouched—there’s no minimum and no maximum. You’re free to build a collection that’s exactly right for you.
Only the final, edited images are delivered in high resolution. Unretouched photos are for selection purposes only and are not shared in full-quality form.
This process ensures that every photo you receive is polished, flattering, and something you’ll be proud to keep and share.
When and how will I get my edited images?
Once you’ve selected your favorite photos from the proof gallery, professional retouching typically takes 1 to 2 weeks, depending on how many images you’ve chosen. I’ll keep you in the loop so you know when to expect your final images.
Your edited boudoir photos will be delivered digitally through a secure online gallery in high resolution—you can download them, share them, or print them wherever you like.
If you’re interested in turning your images into keepsakes, I also offer a range of premium print products, including individual prints, wall art, and custom photo albums. Pricing is available upon request.
Can I add video or custom options?
Yes! To make your boudoir experience even more personal, you can add a 3-minute, professionally edited music video that captures the mood and energy of your shoot. It’s a beautiful keepsake that adds motion and emotion to your story—perfect for gifts or just for yourself.
I also offer custom add-ons like extended shoot time, location upgrades, and premium print products including albums and wall art. Whether you want something classic and romantic or more daring and dramatic, we can tailor your session to match your vision.
If you have something special in mind, just ask—I’m always happy to help bring creative ideas to life.
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